What do women want from men? This can be answered in one word - respect.

Respect for women used to be considered a valuable trait, one that was taught and passed down from generation to generation. Doesn't society regard it as an important human characteristic anymore? Today, it is seldom seen; when it is, women are pleasantly surprised.

How can we raise the next generation of men to be respectful towards women?

Respect is a learned behavior. Children learn by observing their surroundings through familiar behavior. By demonstrating or setting positive examples, we can teach our children at an early age to respect themselves and others. They will carry these lessons with them throughout life.

The first instance a boy shows respect or disrespect to a woman is usually with his mother. Nothing is less promising for women than to see a boy disrespecting his own mother. Why would he show respect to any other woman if he can't show it to his mother?

Fathers should and need to be role models for their sons. It is a father's duty, as it is a mother's, to instill these morals in their sons. Boys learn to respect women by studying their fathers' relationship with their mothers. The case is usually that a father does not know how to teach his son, because he did not learn it from his parents. An adult male can learn to respect women just like a child can be taught to respect.

Respect is not only opening the door or paying for dinner; it is in your tone of voice, word usage and overall regard displayed towards other people.

The "golden rule" that says, "do unto others as you would have them do unto you" applies to respect.

Before someone can demand respect, they have to give respect.Before children can give respect, they have to witness it.

As a parent, it is your responsibility to raise your children with standards that will help them develop positive skills to function effectively in society.

The few men who know how to respect women, more than likely, learned it from their parents. Actions speak louder than words, so encourage your children by practicing the "golden rule." They will follow your lead and gain an important life lesson.

Some boys are never taught to respect people in general, much less women. As parents or mentors, we have the power to shape the futures of childrenŠlet's start with respect.

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